Kit Bauer

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sexual re-education

For a long time in my late teens and early 20s “whatever you want to do” was my go-to response whenever a partner asked me what I wanted in bed. I thought I was appeasing them by allowing them to take hold of the reigns of our sexual encounter. But, with the benefit of hindsight, I can see…

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semantics: stigma

Early on in my career an older worker tried to school me on the stigma of being a sex worker. We had been at work in a city brothel all night, the sun was rising, and cold air was coming through the back door. The door was only open because the laundry guy was coming to collect the bags of sheets and towels…

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